Away From Home

Psychologically, teens are striving for independence just as physical changes require greater supervision of their self-care. It's a real balancing act, and you have to stay involved. The goal is clear - this is the time for you to prepare your son or daughter for college and adulthood. Allow them to become more self-reliant, but let them know you'll be there to support them every step of the way.

At School

Your son or daughter has the right to proper care while at school - the law makes this clear for all public schools, as well as most private schools. Still, you may need to educate your school's administrators about diabetes, your teen's needs, and why good care is so important.

Start by working with your healthcare team to outline your teen's needs throughout the day. Then work with the school to develop an accommodation plan which clearly states, in writing, what special steps will be taken, and who will be responsible for carrying them out.

You may want to meet with teachers, the school nurse, bus drivers, and coaches as a group or individually - just make sure you don't leave out anyone who will be supervising your son or daughter throughout the week. You'll want to make sure everyone understands:

•  Snack and meal times, and special circumstances requiring additional food.

•  Where and when blood tests and injections should be performed, whether that's in the classroom or a private place.

•  Your teen can participate in anything others do, including sports and field trips.

•  Your teen may require extra trips to the bathroom or water fountain.

•  Your teen may not be penalized for necessary medical absences.

In addition, coaches and gym teachers must understand the importance of letting your son or daughter sit out if blood sugars are high. Finally, and perhaps most important, all the adults who supervise your teenager need to understand how to recognize, test for, and treat low blood sugar.

Diabetes Camp

Diabetes camp can be a great way for your kids and teens to enjoy some time away with friends in a safe environment. Even the counselors have experience with diabetes self-care. At first, some people think this sounds like a weeklong diabetes lecture, but you can assure your son or daughter that it's nothing of the sort. At diabetes camp, they'll be just like everyone else.